Today’s choices create tomorrow

Today’s choices create tomorrow

What are you choosing to create today that shapes your tomorrow? Our egos desire to control everything to get over the fear of not enough; in fact, to avoid many fears. We want to avoid discomfort, pain, loss, deceit… We want to control our spouses, our...
The Truth About Jealousy and Why it Hurts so Much

The Truth About Jealousy and Why it Hurts so Much

We all know that jealousy comes from insecurity but what does it actually mean? It means that on some level you feel threatened that the one you love might find someone else more important and give to someone else more than is given to you. Your ego wants to control...
Happiness is a choice

Happiness is a choice

My 10-year old son was contemplating the meaning of life and his conclusion was that the meaning of life is doing the things that we love and not wasting our time on doing the things we don’t enjoy doing. He then added that sometimes we temporarily need to do...
The Pleasure of Feeling Valued

The Pleasure of Feeling Valued

Rabbi Simon Jacobson in his book, Towards a Meaningful Life asks this question, “Do you know what children need more than anything else?“ He answers this question by saying that, “It’s not gifts or places to travel to. It’s not even time....